engagement session outfits

Summer Parklands Engagement Session

Just looking back through this gorgeous summer engagement session has me already missing the peak-season greenery...but if we're being completely honest I'd trade all that in for the cooler weather that is *supposed* to be coming sometime soon. These two were a joy to photograph— they make each other laugh so easily, their fashion choices are right up my alley, and their tattoos complement each other's perfectly. I had such a wonderful time showing them all my favorite paths in The Parklands.

Reminder about flower fields: flowers are delicate. If you want an image of someone sitting while surrounded by flowers, look for a rock or dirt area for them to sit on so that you don't crush the blooms. It'll give the same impression without causing harm. (I know you don't believe me, but look at all the images we got while sticking to dirt and rock! You can't tell at all - which is why I feel the need to bring it up.) A good question to ask is "if one hundred other people did the same thing what would happen?" One hundred people can walk on dirt or rock without an impact, but if 100 people wandered through the flowers then we would lose those flowers fast. The Parklands is pretty good at putting up signage on areas that are delicate or need to rest so you know where to avoid.

Another note for all the photographers out there— make sure to stay current on your permits when you're shooting at a park! The Parklands requires a permit to shoot in all five of their parks, but it is so worth it! They always have clean (and temperature-controlled!) bathrooms, beautiful flowers, and are constantly expanding with new projects! Our financial support is needed to make sure our impact is minimized— and to ensure the parks are well-maintained so we always have a beautiful place to explore and to photograph.

If you’re looking for more outdoorsy goodness try this adventurous hiking session or this epic Iceland engagement. Also if you want to hear more about how Kristen and Ryan got engaged these photos were featured along with their story over on How They Asked!

How to Choose Outfits for Your Couples Session // Interview with Cassie Scott

How to Choose Outfits for A Couples Session // Interview with Cassie Scott // Please and Thank You on the Avenue

A couple weeks ago I sat down with model & photographer Cassie Scott to get some feedback on my what to wear guide. I’ve been working on developing it as a resource for my couples to use as they are planning outfits for their engagement or anniversary sessions and I wanted some expert advice. Because Cassie is used to being on both sides of the camera, she had so many helpful things to add that I decided to make this blog post in addition to incorporating her feedback into my existing post!

How to Choose Outfits for A Couples Session // Interview with Cassie Scott // Joe Ley
How to Choose Outfits for A Couples Session // Interview with Cassie Scott // Nulu
How to Choose Outfits for Your Couples Session // Interview with Cassie Scott

How do you choose clothes for shoots?

Picking clothes for a shoot can be a daunting task, and I’ll admit even after many years of having my photo taken I still stress about it sometimes! I ask myself two main questions that usually help:

Where is this shoot going to be?

This is always my first question because it dictates everything else. If for instance, I’m going to be outside in the woods I know that wearing heels won’t work because not only will I be sinking into the mud but it simply doesn’t match the location. You want to match your surroundings when your portrait is being taken otherwise the photos can come off as too set up. What would I wear if I were hanging out in this location? What time of year is it? It’s okay to dress casually! Casual doesn’t mean you have to sacrifice style. Often people think they need to wear their very best clothes for their photo to be taken and it’s just not true. Simply looking through Pinterest is a great way to find inspiration or how to style clothes you already have.

What is this shoot for?

Keeping in mind what the photos are supposed to show and signify is extremely important. If you’re doing a couples shoot that’s supposed to be about you as a pair, making sure you don’t clash with your partner is important. You want your clothes to look like yourself but not distract the viewer. If they’re too fancy for the location they can stand out in a bad way, and vice versa.

How to Choose Outfits for A Couples Session // Interview with Cassie Scott // Cherokee Park
How to Choose Outfits for Your Couples Session // Interview with Cassie Scott

Are there any fashion rules you keep in mind when planning an outfit?

  • Find clothes that can be dressed up or down so that you can change the mood of the shoot quickly. A wrap dress, for example, can be casual with a jacket over it or more fancy with a pair of heels.

  • Pick clothes that are flattering to your shape. You want to show off your best assets but also not distract from your face. Being comfortable is also key!

  • Find colors that suit your skin tone. There are lots of guides online for this, but making sure you avoid colors that make you look washed out or ill is also good to keep in mind. As a pale woman, I usually avoid things that are light pink as they're too close to my actual skin tone, and pale green can make me look sick.

  • Patterns can be great so long as they’re timeless. Geometric, stripe, plaid and floral prints never go out of style and are good options if you’re really wanting to add some interest. So long as the tones are fairly neutral (avoid neons) and the shapes aren’t too overwhelming and large you’ll be set.

  • You should feel good in the clothes you wear! If you don’t feel your best in the clothes you put on it’ll show on your face, trust me!

How to Choose Outfits for A Couples Session // Interview with Cassie Scott // Cherokee Park
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How to Choose Outfits for Your Couples Session // Interview with Cassie Scott

During engagement sessions, we are often in public places and it can be difficult for clients to quickly transition into a second look. Any tips on how to do that in five minutes or less?

Personally, my favorite way to transition between looks quickly is either by adding lipstick or swapping accessories. The best way to do this is to start with clothes that can be dressed up or down and work with a variety of shoe, jewelry, and even hat choices. You can also add a stylish coat or jacket over what you have which can give any outfit a totally different vibe. Adding a lipstick can transform a look to be more glamorous or fun quickly, and if you bring a small mirror can be done anywhere. Personally, I’d bring a lipstick that’s an “all-day” variety so it’s kiss proof for couples pictures.

How to Choose Outfits for A Couples Session // Interview with Cassie Scott // Joe Ley Antiques
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How to Choose Outfits for Your Couples Session // Interview with Cassie Scott

So I know that my shoots are usually shorter and more laid back than a full-on modeling gig would be, but just out of curiosity, what do you bring with you to a shoot?

Most models have a “model bag” that they bring to all their shoots that has essentials they need for either being on set all day or on location. I personally find these items are great for anyone planning on having their photo taken on location:

  • Garment bag for carrying/protecting clothes

  • Regular nude bra + strapless nude bra (the goal is to avoid any undergarments showing as they’ll distract from the clothes, and make sure the bras fit well)

  • Seamless nude underwear (I personally love Calvin Klein’s Invisible Hipsters)

  • Make-up wipes

  • Concealer and powder for touch-ups (faces tend to get shiny when you’re outside for a bit, just check yourself between locations)

  • Small mirror

  • Hairbrush

  • Tennis shoes (really any practical shoe for walking between locations)

  • A snack! Don’t let hunger creep up on you!

  • A weekender bag to carry all this and any accessories you may have

How to Choose Outfits for A Couples Session // Interview with Cassie Scott
How to Choose Outfits for A Couples Session // Interview with Cassie Scott

For these images, Cassie started in jeans so she could easily pull on a skirt and pull off the pants without getting indecent in public. I love how different both images feel by only changing that one element of clothing!

How to Choose Outfits for A Couples Session // Interview with Cassie Scott

We went to Joe Ley in Nulu and Cassie's dress was the perfect blend of modern and vintage— it really worked well in the space. Fun fact, we only spent twelve minutes shooting there because they were closing, but I'm so pleased with what we got!

I hope you found this interview as helpful as I did! If you are wanting to dive even deeper into what to wear for your engagement session check out the guide I'm working on!